Relating

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Better Relating

"Out beyond ideas
of right-doing and wrong doing,
there is a field,
I'll meet you there..."
- Rumi

Do you want better relationships at home and work?

improve your relationships at home and work
communicate with ease and grace

manage difficult situations without ruining the relationship
feel more confident about expressing yourself
express yourself in ways that enrich the relationship

Every relationship is a dance. Is it always a beautiful dance, or do you sometimes feel as though you have two left feet? Relationships rarely go as we would like them to, this is because in relating to others we tend to fall back on a trusted set of behaviour patterns. Relationship coaching is all about recognising the patterns that are no longer working for you, and creating patterns that work better for you now.

These behaviour patterns were set out in childhood and, while they probably served you very well when you were seven, they don't seem to be quite cutting it when you are thirty-seven.

When talking about relationship, we mean all your interactions with other human beings. Your patterns of relating are not confined to your love interest, they are reflected in your relating with friends, co-workers, your boss, clients and business contacts.

Most often people act out the same dynamics in the workplace, as they did in the playground. If you didn't handle difficult people very well then, you are unlikely to handle them well now, unless something in you changes.

Whenever you are called upon to interact with others, you will find yourself defaulting to a 'stock' of pre-learned relating patterns. How you relate to others in close relationships has less to do with love, and more to do with old patterns of behaviour, that you carry from one relationship to another.

If you look closely you will find yourself acting out the same dynamics with your loved ones, as you do with difficult colleagues at work. This is because when it comes to relating to others, most of us have very few skills and a very limited repertoire.

"To experience relationships of substance and depth requires approaching and entering into relationships with consciousness and concern for the other"

- Gary Zukav

Do you want your relationships to be better?

We are really just a collection of conditioned responses, much like Pavlov's dogs! He, she, or anybody, says x, and we automatically respond with y. Guaranteed, every time. And then you wonder why you keep repeating the same patterns in all our relationships. Change your patterns and your relationships can be much better. No-one else needs to change, just change yourself and the others will respond accordingly.

You are invited to try a 20-minute coaching consultation, just to see how it works.
It's easy: just eMail ruth@dreamcoach.co.uk and we'll set up a day and time. (and it's free!)

Ever wondered why you keep repeating the same patterns in your relationships?

...because you do!
Think about it.
It's precisely because you keep repeating the same patterns!
In other words, you don't change anything.

Working with a coach helps you to:

understand the underlying dynamics involved
recognise clearly which patterns are helpful
identify which patterns you definitely want to change
learn new patterns to put in their place

This is because coaching develops your self-awareness, which helps you to develop advanced communication, emotional intelligience and relating skills.

Our coaching programs give you the tools to effectively change habitual patterns of reacting,
and choose better responses.
Better, because they result in better outcomes for all concerned.

What do YOU want to change in your relationships?

With the help of a coach you can create healthy dynamics in all of your important relationships.

In an initial 20-minute consultation you can identify your relationship goals and see what you would like to be better. What's more, this initial consultation is absolutely free.

So what are you waiting for?
Contact Ruth now and schedule your 20 minute consultation - it's time to change!
Just eMail ruth@dreamcoach.co.uk and we'll set up a day and time. Simple.

You are invited to try a 20-minute coaching consultation, just to see how it works.
It's easy: just eMail ruth@dreamcoach.co.uk and we'll set up a day and time. (and it's free!)

Better Relating

Coaching Program

Free Trial Consultation

1:1 6-month Program

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FREE Trial Consultation

You are invited to try a 20-minute coaching consultation, just to see how it works.
Just eMail ruth@dreamcoach.co.uk to arrange a day and time. It's easy! (..and it's free!)

Better Relating:
1:1 Coaching Program

This six month program supports you as you make important changes and then integrate those changes into your life. 6 months allows you to synthesize knowledge, understand, apply and see the results of the changes you are making. You develop a deeper understanding of yourself, your habitual reactions, and you acquire the skills to make lasting change in your life, without ruining your relationships.

expert coaching tailored to your specific needs and requirements
training in mindfulness techniques
3 one to one (1:1) coaching calls with your personal coach every month, for six months.
continous support by e-mail and text (SMS) throughout the 6 months
full training in fundamental relating skills: with expert tips, tools and techniques to help you apply these principles in your daily life

How to register:

1. Choose a payment option below and make your payment

2. Ruth will then connect with you directly to schedule your monthly coaching calls

...it's that easy!

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British Pounds Monthly Payments: £180 per month for six months	US Dollars Monthly Payments: $288 per month for six months

Weekly Payments: £44 per week for 25 weeks	Weekly Payments: $70 per week for 25 weeks

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